tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20704212432834825042024-03-12T20:58:21.115-07:00Life in NeverwellThe body I inhabit is chronically ill. This blog is a journey of reflection, a meditation on what is, and an attempt to articulate the art of liminal living.( "Limin" (Latin) is a threshold, a doorway, a place in between.) I have ME/CFS among other things... and possibly XMRV.d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-75380044379165575562011-05-05T13:30:00.000-07:002011-05-05T14:02:32.586-07:00Hiatus Due to the condition of my health, I am forced to stop doing almost everything... except manage my illness. I am very upset about this, but I can do nothing but surrender to the truth. The truth is that the daily maintenance of my body in it's current condition is a full time job. This means I will be taking a break from blogging both here and on <a href="http://lifeinneverwell.blogspot.com/">Life in Neverwell</a>.<br />
I am going to try to work a little on<a href="http://quintessiasjourney.blogspot.com/"> Quintessia's Journey</a>, if I can.<br />
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During the course of my 30 year oddessy with this amalgamation of immune disorder(s), ME/CFS, etc, I have tried everything to change my condition. I've done all the New Age "think yourself well" programs (which lead to me ignoring symptoms in an effort to will myself healthy. Silly of me. And dangerous.) I had extensive counseling and analysis, which showed this was not a psycho-somatic in origin. I've participated in experimental drug trials. I have spent $10,000's at an environmental clinic, purifying my body. I have met with authentic shamans, psychics, and gifted healers. I also became a Reiki Master in 2000. I have tried supplements, herbs and peculiar diets (I am NOT allergic to gluten). I have tried almost everything (within reason) to bring my body to wellness.<br />
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I feel it's important for people to realize that being chronically ill is not a failure on the part of the sick person. The idea that there is "something out there, but you just haven't found it" is also useless. No one wants to be this debilitated, to live a half-life. All of us with chronic illness are doing the best we can with what we have.<br />
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So.... in the spirit of living the truth, I am admitting that I need to withdraw from putting my attention <i>anywhere</i>, but on the needs of my poor sick body. It's the least I can do for it.<br />
If I should improve or have a reprieve, I be back at this blog.<br />
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I want thank everyone for the good wishes, prayers and healing rituals. Those efforts are not lost in the bigger picture. Compassion never is lost, even if we don't see the result of our actions.d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-20226714138304829872011-02-04T19:31:00.000-08:002011-02-04T19:31:03.395-08:00Laura Hillenbrand & CFSThere is a very good interview with Laura Hillenbrand, author of <u><i>Seabiscuit</i></u> and <u><i>Unbroken</i></u>, posted on the New York Times website. She very honest about her struggles.<br />
Click <a href="http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/02/04/an-author-escapes-from-chronic-fatigue-syndrome/?emc=eta1"><i>here</i></a> to read it.<br />
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I haven't been posting much. I am in a collapse, and my health care network has become a circus (except for my MD who is an angel), making it hard for me to get much help.d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-40490354037679309392011-01-01T20:52:00.000-08:002011-01-01T20:52:19.475-08:00The Past Two MonthsI wrote a rather long story about the past two months. It's rather long. It's posted on my other blog. I am too exhausted to do 2 posts....<br />
<a href="http://mythicmusing.blogspot.com/2010/12/alchemically-speaking-past-two-months.html">http://mythicmusing.blogspot.com/2010/12/alchemically-speaking-past-two-months.html</a><br />
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Happy New Year to everyone!d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-31643441018143584632010-12-06T10:59:00.000-08:002010-12-06T10:59:40.571-08:00American Red Cross bans ME/CFS Patients from Donating BloodBelow is a copy of the press release from 12/3/2010:<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">American Red Cross Statement on XMRV and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome</span><br />
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</div></div><strong>WASHINGTON, Friday, December 03, 2010</strong> — At present, there are no specific federal recommendations regarding deferral of individuals with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS) or other diseases that have been associated with Murine Leukemia Virus-related virus (XMRV) infection. Nevertheless, in the interest of patient and donor safety, the American Red Cross will defer indefinitely any donor who reveals during the donor interview that they have been diagnosed with CFS.<br />
XMRV infection has been associated in some studies with prostate cancer and chronic fatigue syndrome, but at the present time these disease associations have yet to be confirmed.<br />
There is currently insufficient data to conclude that XMRV is transmitted through blood transfusion. However, the National Heart, Lung and Blood Institute (NHLBI) Task force is conducting research to determine the frequency of the virus in the donor population, whether it is transfusion-transmitted, and whether recipients become infected and develop the disease.<br />
An AABB Interorganizational Task Force is charged with reviewing all available data, making recommendations for further action to assess the risk of XMRV transmission through blood transfusion, develop mitigation strategies as needed, and to provide information for blood donors, recipients and the public.<br />
The AABB Taskforce released<a href="http://draft.blogger.com/goog_635330476" style="color: black;"> </a>Association Bulletin #10-03 in June 2010,<a href="http://draft.blogger.com/goog_635330479"> </a>recommending that blood collecting organizations — through the use of donor education <a href="http://www.aabb.org/resources/publications/bulletins/Pages/CFSeducationalresources.aspx" title="">materials</a> available at the donation site — actively discourage potential donors who have ever been diagnosed by a physician with chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS), also known as chronic fatigue and immune dysfunction syndrome (CFIDS) or myalgic encephalomyelitis (ME), from donating blood or blood components. In addition, any donor with symptoms of CFS would be deferred if, on the day of donation, they respond negatively to the question, "Are you feeling well today?"<br />
The Red Cross has implemented the AABB recommendations and has gone further to implement indefinite deferral for donors who reveal a history of a medical diagnosis of CFS.<br />
<strong>About the American Red Cross:</strong><br />
<em>The American Red Cross shelters, feeds and provides emotional support to victims of disasters; supplies nearly half of the nation's blood; teaches lifesaving skills; provides international humanitarian aid; and supports military members and their families. The Red Cross is a charitable organization — not a government agency — and depends on volunteers and the generosity of the American public to perform its mission. For more information, please visit <a href="http://www.redcross.org/">www.redcross.org</a> or join our blog at <a href="http://blog.redcross.org/" title="http://blog.redcross.org/">http://blog.redcross.org</a>.</em>d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-53342588691120134142010-10-08T11:58:00.000-07:002013-01-17T18:25:28.043-08:00Sometimes it's a StruggleRight now, I am in a very low place with my illness and its process. In fact, this is the worst condition I have ever experienced since my initial collapse in 1979. I have developed a complication that, according to medical journals, is found only in post operative complications, or in the dying. There is no treatment, and everyday is a struggle with this life threatening complication. For those who wonder what it is : paralytic illeus. My doctor believes it's neurological. This is not something I was prepared for... I didn't know it existed. It's taken over 1 year to determine that it is neurological. An administrator at the clinic where mt doctor works asked me, "<i>How does it feel to be at the cutting edge of a new disease?</i>" The question shocked me. My immediate response was to her was "Like hell."<br />
New disease???? I've had it over 30 years! <br />
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Things have been made more nightmarish by a type of insomnia that seems to be neurological. No amount of medication has allowed me to sleep. Part of the problem here may is that my reactions to chemicals (ingested and airborne) & foods has changed suddenly, so I have to learn all over again how to deal with everything. Some examples: sedatives make me hyper. Yogurt gives me a migraine. Perfume closes off my airway. I have always had Multiple Chemical Sensitivities, but it's gone to a whole new level.<br />
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I have hesitated to share any of this, because I wanted the blog to be honest, but somewhat uplifting. <br />
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Toni Bernhard's new book, <a href="http://www.wisdompubs.org/pages/display.lasso?-KeyValue=33112&-Token.Action=&image=1"><u><i>How to Be Sick</i></u> </a>is sitting beside me everyday. <br />
I am reminded to be empty of expectations.<br />
But, sometimes it's a struggle.<br />
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*Note: Toni's book is not just for Dharma students. It is helpful for anyone chronically ill, or those who love someone chronically ill.d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-38858822411460975122010-09-20T12:41:00.000-07:002013-01-17T18:23:44.083-08:00On my Other BlogThere are two posts you may enjoy:<br />
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<a href="http://mythicmusing.blogspot.com/2010/09/blanket-of-blessings-lama.html">The Blanket of Blessings & the Lama </a><br />
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<a href="http://mythicmusing.blogspot.com/2010/09/oridinary-connecting-with-nature-from.html">The Ordinary: Connecting With Nature From Your Doorstep</a><br />
(This post includes some photos I've taken.)d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-104275638684285272010-08-23T17:22:00.000-07:002010-08-23T17:22:44.713-07:00Study Confirms CFS and XMRV LinkThe National Academy of Sciences has released the results of a study confirming the link between Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and XMRV.<br />
PDF located <a href="http://www.pnas.org/content/early/2010/08/16/1006901107.full.pdf+html">here</a>. <br />
This supports the findings released last year by the <a href="http://www.wpinstitute.org/">Whittmore Peterson Institute</a>.d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-21099397133460031392010-08-16T12:41:00.000-07:002010-08-16T12:41:01.687-07:00A New Book: How to be Sick by Toni BernhardThere's new book that will be published on September 1st. I'm excited about it. Buddha knows, I need all the ideas I can get as my body becomes more unmanageable....<br />
<u><i>How to Be Sick</i></u> is by Toni Bernhard, a woman who became ill on a trip to Paris and never recovered. She has been diagnosed with CFS and she wrote the book from her bed.<br />
Here are some of her links: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/How-To-Be-Sick/340560436425?ref=mf&v=wall"></a><br />
<a href="http://www.howtobesick.com/">Toni's website</a><br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/How-To-Be-Sick/340560436425?ref=mf&v=wall">Toni's face book page </a><br />
<a href="http://gobeyondwords.wordpress.com/">Wisdom Publications</a> is the publisher.<br />
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Now there is an investigation into what happen that afternoon. The hospital administration was further upset when they discovered that I was released without treatment. (I have very good insurance, so this isn't a money issue.)<br />
I regret going to the ER and asking for help. One of the investigators asked me if I would be using their facility in the future. I replied: "When I am dead."d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-9716064901190385592010-06-29T16:55:00.000-07:002010-06-29T18:47:58.269-07:00Setback Sometime last week (Thursday night?) I awoke to horrific abdominal pain..... so much pain that I could not tell where it was coming from. I soon found out that I had an ulcerative erosion in the upper intestine. Two years ago, after several tests, it was discovered that my entire stomach lining was eroded: erosive gastritis. My Dr. said that it could possibly be that my immune system was attacking my stomach lining. (To me, this was obvious because of my prior diagnoses of interstitial cystitis and ulcerative colitis.)<br />
To further complicate matters, the required diet for this crisis is clear liquids. This diet does nothing to address my functional hypoglycemia: chronic low blood sugar. With low blood sugar, you can't simply eat sugar. You have to eat things that metabolize slowly, like whole grains and proteins. When your blood sugar is in the 60's, or lower, you basically can't function. It's like putting your computer in "safe mode". You are very limited in cognition, perception and energy. So I did the only thing I could do: I just laid around our 750 square-foot home in a fog. Occasionally I noticed cobwebs and dust bunnies that I do not have the energy to clean. Maybe I should name them...<br />
Somewhere in the lost time and fog of doing nothing, I have sprained my left thumb. I am starting to eat whole foods today. I hope this episode ends soon.d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-92171726865549220482010-06-23T10:56:00.000-07:002010-06-23T10:56:12.310-07:00Original Press Release from the Netherlands: FDA and NIH confirm 'XMRV findings'<i>Below is a full copy of the original press release:</i><br />
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Gendringen, NL (MMD Newswire) June 22, 2010 -- The FDA and the NIH have independently confirmed the XMRV findings as published in Science, October last. This confirmation was issued by Dr. Harvey Alter of the NIH during a closed workshop on blood transfusion held on May 26-27 in Zagreb. Two journalists from the Dutch magazine for health professionals, ORTHO, who have been working on XMRV stories for several months, were able to obtain a copy of the Alter lecture. <br />
In the October 8, 2009 issue of Science Express, the Lombardi-Mikovits group at the Whittemore Peterson Institute (WPI), the Cleveland Clinic and the National Cancer Institute (NCI) reported that 67% of 101 chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS) patients tested positive for infection with xenotropic murine retrovirus (XMRV). Only 3.7% of 218 healthy subjects tested were positive for this gammaretrovirus. Since that time, a number of research groups have proved unable to independently confirm these findings.<br />
On Friday last, the AABB released an Association Bulletin recommending that its member blood collectors actively discourage potential donors who have been diagnosed with CFS from donating blood or blood components. This interim measure was proposed by the AABB Interorganizational Task Force on XMRV. This Task Force includes representatives from several government agencies, including the Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) and the National Institutes of Health (NIH).<br />
The fact that the measure was introduced suggests the presence of information not yet published. The ORTHO journalists were able to obtain a pdf document of the lecture given by Harvey Alter at the IPFA/PEI 17th Workshop on 'Surveillance and screening of Blood Borne Pathogens' in Zagreb. The International Plasma Fractionation Association (IPFA) represents the not-for-profit organizations around the world involved in plasma fractionation. The IPFA is based in Amsterdam, the Netherlands.<br />
The highly-experienced Dr. Harvey Alter is Clinical Studies Chief at the Infectious Diseases and Immunogenetics Section of the Department of Transfusion Medicine at the NIH Clinical Center in Bethesda. "The data in the Lombardi, et al Science manuscript are extremely strong and likely true, despite the controversy", was one comment on the XMRV findings reported by Alter in Zagreb. "Although blood transmission to humans has not been proved, it is probable. The association with CFS is very strong, but causality not proved. XMRV and related MLVs are in the donor supply with an early prevalence estimate of 3%‐7%. We (FDA & NIH) have independently confirmed the Lombardi group findings."<br />
ORTHO contacted Dr. Harvey Alter today for a reaction. He did not want to comment, but confirmed that a paper is soon to be published.<br />
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ORTHO is a Dutch magazine for health professionals focusing on nutrition and dietary supplements. ORTHO has been publishing reports on CFS since 1988. Editor-in-chief: Gert E. Schuitemaker (PhD). Tel: + 31 (0) 315 695211 / + 49 (0) 170 808 9484. E-mail: ortho@orthoeurope.com.<br />
<a href="http://www.mmdnewswire.com/xmrv-9040.html">http://www.mmdnewswire.com/xmrv-9040.html </a>d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-40283627446294048892010-06-22T17:08:00.000-07:002010-06-22T17:08:43.979-07:00FDA and NIH confirm 'XMRV' Findings. See Hillary Johnson's website: <br />
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<h2 class="contentheading"><span style="font-size: small;">Original Press Release from the Netherlands: FDA and NIH confirm 'XMRV findings'</span> </h2><a href="http://www.mmdnewswire.com/xmrv-9040.html">http://www.mmdnewswire.com/xmrv-9040.html</a>d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-80656716491453321622010-06-20T14:58:00.000-07:002010-06-20T14:58:15.683-07:00Infinity Chained<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/TB6GE8jNL7I/AAAAAAAAAMA/u1wSV_CXzmk/s1600/chained+angel+II.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/TB6GE8jNL7I/AAAAAAAAAMA/u1wSV_CXzmk/s320/chained+angel+II.JPG" /></a></div>This is another of my paintings: <i>Chained Angel II</i>. I painted it at the same time I painted <i>Chained Angel I</i>, below . I painted them side-by-side, using the same color palette ( I wrote a little about <i>Chained Angel I </i>earlier on this blog : <a href="http://lifeinneverwell.blogspot.com/2010/01/art-of-ilness.html"><i>The Art of Illness</i></a>.)<br />
<i>Chained Angel II</i> has the horse head nebula as her dress, and deep space as her wings. Yet- she is enchained deep in a cavern inside the Earth. <i>How can space and infinity be chained???</i> For me, this is a description of living with ME/CFS.<br />
Having a mind that wants to explore the world around me and a body that can't even make it to the parking lot is a paradox. Embodying a heart that desires interaction with other cultures & other peoples in a body that is chronically exhausted is.....well... <i>frustrating</i>.<br />
A case in point is this past Friday. I was not doing well already, but my daughter & her boyfriend were taking us to lunch to celebrate Father's Day. This is a rare occaisions due to everyone's work schedules, and my health. We all went, and we all had a nice time, though I couldn't eat. <br />
Later that night was the first get together for the newly re-formed <a href="http://www.pacificparanormal.com/joomla/">Pacific Paranormal Investigations</a>. We all love being together. The chemistry feeds our souls. My husband & I spent 6 wonderful hours with these fascinationg and caring people around a fire. We all talked about things we are passionate about. By yesterday , late morning, I had crashed. Complete adrenal exhaustion. Everything hurts. No more that 2 hours sleep. My kidneys are inflamed, my joints are inflamed, it hurts to breathe, my brain is foggy..... I could go on, but I won't. I am in a complete breakdown. I only spent time with people I love, sitting only (no dancing, walking, moving around)..... and yet the cost was very high. I'm still paying.<br />
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Oh, and we're still having quakes, both aftershocks from the 7.2 Easter quake, and new ones from other fault lines. Quakes also affect my inner ear.<br />
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I think I'll go lay down....<br />
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UPDATE: we had 5.9 quake approximately 55 miles from our home, after I posted this.d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-65542662524540326702010-06-08T14:25:00.000-07:002013-01-17T18:21:18.188-08:00Tending The Body The amount time I spend taking care my body leaves me with very little time to do much else. If I am not tending the body, I am recovering from the exertion of having tended it. There are days were I wonder if this is to be, in the end, the total of my life. I know there are days where I am asked "What did you do today?" and my answer is "I took care of my body". <br />
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"She spent the whole of her life tending to her body", a statement I imagine someone could say after I die. That doesn't appear to be a productive way to live. I have no choice in the matter. The loudest voice in my life is the cry of my body and its systemic complications.<br />
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To find meaning in in this condition, I turned to spirituality. There arose yet another struggle: modern spirituality is <i>NOT body based</i>! You are supposed to be striving for heaven, or Nirvana, and you are <i>NOT allowed to bring your body with you</i>! You end up, on this non-body-based journey, looking everywhere outside yourself to find the kingdom of heaven, or god, or enlightenment, or samadhi. The "new age" philosophies often regard illness and death as a complete failure. "You don't really want to be well or you would be", says one well known "new age" healer. Or a well meaning "spiritual" friend who says "Why did you give yourself this illness?" Then there's the "spiritual counselor" who asks "What is the pay off for remaining sick?" The sad thing here is the "spiritual persons" just mentioned have completely immersed themselves in delusional thinking. <i>True spirituality includes the very conditions you are in right now.</i> <b>You cannot escape your body, and achieve spiritual wholeness.</b> Your body is your vehicle. <i>That being the case</i> , we need to work with spiritual principles that include our body, as it is. Each of us who bears an illness such as this has a right to demand a body-based philosophy from their spirituality. To believe any other way does not contribute to wholeness.<br />
To tend the body IS to tend the soul, the spirit, the mind-stream.d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-5300147212881018382010-05-18T16:39:00.000-07:002010-05-18T16:58:56.103-07:00Beauty in NatureI grew up in an isolated area along the Canadian Border, in Northern New York. It was time when a time the land still talked to the people. Nature was my mother in many ways, and interacting with nature taught me invaluable lessons. She is both fierce and beautiful, but always awesome.<br />On my other blog, <a href="http://mythicmusing.blogspot.com/2010_05_01_archive.html">mythicmusing</a>, I have been writing about my experiences with a numinous image: reindeer goddess. Due to my interest in reindeer, I discovered the story of baby <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2010/may/11/blue-reindeer-born-england-cornwall">Blue</a>: he his the first wild reindeer born in England since the Ice Age and he was born on May Day.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/S_Mn3WK7qzI/AAAAAAAAALQ/r5DMYxQnrnc/s1600/Reindeer__716126a.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 120px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/S_Mn3WK7qzI/AAAAAAAAALQ/r5DMYxQnrnc/s200/Reindeer__716126a.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5472761803983006514" /></a> <br />photo by Adam Gerrard/SWNS<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />In prior posts I have told stories of my <a href="http://lifeinneverwell.blogspot.com/2010/01/virtue-of-small-things.html">adventures in hummingbird triage and rescue</a>.<br />A colleague of mine at Pacific Paranormal Investigations recently pointed out a hummingbird web cam to me; meet mother <a href="http://www.ustream.tv/hummingbirdnestcam">Phoebe and her hatch-lings Hope and Hoku</a>.<br /><br />I hope these images are as inspiring to you as they are to me.d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-77344011898387521302010-05-07T16:41:00.000-07:002010-05-14T11:34:25.394-07:00Me, ME, and Vitamin D<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/S-SlRC97u3I/AAAAAAAAAK4/_BCqyzwihFI/s1600/DSC01179.JPG"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 293px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/S-SlRC97u3I/AAAAAAAAAK4/_BCqyzwihFI/s320/DSC01179.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5468677559807622002" border="0" /></a><br />I have been incapacitated for weeks. A friend of mine, artist Teresa Mill, came to visit me. She brought freshly cut roses from the garden. They smell heavenly! Thank you, Teresa!<br /><br />The past 2 weeks have been very painful for me. I have spent many hours at my doctors office, on 2 separate visits. The first visit was preceded by the worst body aches I have ever had. I was actually crying. I didn't have a fever, and there didn't seem to be one thing that was causing the all-over excruciating joint, muscle and bone aches. My kidneys hurt, too. I had to be seen by nurse practitioner. He was very thorough, but he did say one of those things that make ME/CFS patient's blood pressure go sky high: "Sometimes we give pain patients anti-depressants and the pain just goes away." I said, "Look at my chart. I have been on nortryptaline (20 mgs a day) for 16 years! And I have tried them all!"<br />"True", he said, after reading the chart.<br />So he ordered many tests for things I've never heard of, and other things I've been tested for numerous times.<br /> Three days after the Dr. visit, I discovered the culprit for the horrible body pains: vitamin D supplements. I stopped taking them because I felt so terribly sick. Three days later, most of the pain was gone. (Last month I was found to have a severe vitamin D deficiency with a level of 16. This is in spite of my diet containing foods with a daily intake of 100% of vitamin D. )<br /> I had to go back to my Dr.'s. It turns out that because my body can't absorb the D, taking the supplements makes me very sick. It's part of a mal-absorption syndrome. My Dr. explained that my bones are at risk, and need D asap. Normally, your body absorbs D through sunlight. Due to having zero thyroid function, going out in direct sunlight causes me to have abscesses on the skin. (Did I mention I have very pale skin with no chance of tanning?)<br /> The other tests showed that my pernicious anemia is alive and well. No wonder I feel sad and blue. I've also got a virus that attacks the vocal chords. I can't talk. I was told this will take 6-8 weeks to run it's course. Chances are, I was exposed to it at the clinic. Oh Joy!!<br /> Now comes the task of experimenting with different supplements and food combinations. Fortunately, my husband works for a health food store. Oh- and he is a musician who plays the Blues... and plays it like he means it.d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-71783794768530437222010-04-22T15:35:00.000-07:002010-04-22T15:46:37.447-07:00Quakes and Naps<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/S9DPbDIIOgI/AAAAAAAAAKg/mCn6a-xL9yc/s1600/sacred+nap.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/S9DPbDIIOgI/AAAAAAAAAKg/mCn6a-xL9yc/s320/sacred+nap.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5463094411603229186" /></a><br /><br />This is Lilah. She is one of my daily companions, along with Thomas (a large Maine Coon).<br />I haven't been able to write much these days. I am feeling too achy-all-over. I feel downright poisoned. There's a few things going on with my blood results, but nothing that can be solved. I can't even sleep for any length of time, but that's just part of the ME/CFS experience. That's were Lilah comes in.... She's the Master Napcatcher. She naps all those naps I miss. Lucky Lilah!<br />Meanwhile, we are still having quakes every day, every hour since the 7.2 Easter quake. It still feels like I'm standing on a dock at the edge of the ocean. Maybe I'm just sea-sick?<br /><br />Some moments I feel pretty sad. Other moments I count my blessings. Moment by moment...d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-9655622338660248252010-04-13T14:09:00.000-07:002010-04-13T14:42:51.499-07:00Happy Orchid, Moving Earth & NOW<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/S8Td7OyTC9I/AAAAAAAAAKY/oAjaNp5_QqU/s1600/orchidbloom6.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/S8Td7OyTC9I/AAAAAAAAAKY/oAjaNp5_QqU/s320/orchidbloom6.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5459732657930963922" /></a><br /><br /> It's been 10 days since the Pacific Coast Quake. Since the 7.2 rocked the ground here, there has only been 5 hours of quake free activity. By Sunday 4/11, there had been over 3000 logged quakes. It's very edgy living with ground moving so much. For me, it feels like I am standing on a dock moving with the waves. My two furry buddies, Thomas & Lilah, have been very nervous cats. My hummingbirds and other bird friends have been very lethargic and quiet. Only the ravens are chattering, with the occasional hawk "scree" chiming in.<br /><br /> My orchid is very happy and just opened it's 6th bloom today. I know next to nothing about orchids, so I thought I'd check out the symbolism. It turns out that they are very temperamental to grow. They represent fertility, but also can symbolize the death of a child when the blooms are cut. They also symbolize abundance and luxury. On a deeper level, they symbolize purity and spiritual perfection (Chevalier & Gheerbrant/1994). It has cheered me up a bit to see the happy orchid in the morning.<br /><br />At this time, my body is very achy and tired, day after day. The word for how I am getting through life is this: I feel like I am <span style="font-style:italic;">slogging</span> through. Though I wake up in the morning with the idea I'd like to read something, or write something, or maybe DO something... the reality is that I am too tired after breakfast to keep moving. The next challenge is to shower. So, you see that I don't get very far. <br /><br />The advantage to moving so very slow in life is that I get to see the process of the orchid blooming. I get hear the ravens talk, and what their different tones might mean. I get to watch the hummingbird babies grow up. And I get feel the earth move during quake clusters. I get to be here when my husband comes home from a long day at work. I answer the phone when my daughter calls.<br /><br /> I am here.<br /> NOW.d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-61671678747541623572010-04-05T10:22:00.000-07:002013-01-17T18:26:25.825-08:00Earthquake ExperienceThis is a re-post of my blog entry on <a href="http://mythicmusing.blogspot.com/">mythic musing</a>. I didn't start having physical symptoms BEFORE quakes, tsunamis & and volcanic eruptions until 2004.<br />
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Sunday, April 4, 2010<br />
7.2 and a Cluster of Quakes<br />
Last night I started having dizziness, headaches and a feeling of malaise. My ears felt plugged. I had a disturbing night, and felt terrible when I woke up. I told my husband that something was very wrong with me, but I didn't know what it was. I even felt disconnected from my body. We agreed that if it got any worse we would go to urgent care. Then I did something I rarely do: I went back to bed. I couldn't function! I dozed in and out all afternoon. I had earplugs in so I didn't have hear the neighborhood noises. Late in the afternoon I was alerted by a sound that was similar to wind chimes. I knew there are none nearby, so I ignored the sound. Then the bed started to shake. I realized we were having a quake, but this one wouldn't stop. I got out of bed and opened the bedroom door. My husband wasn't home... he had gone to the store. I heard the whole building CRACK. I ran outside to find all my neighbors outside as well. The shaking kept going on. When the ground stopped moving we all went back inside.<br />
This quake was 130 miles away and it was a 7.2. We're still having aftershocks with different epicenters up and down the fault line that the original quake was on. This is the worst quake I've experienced and the first major quake in my local area since I became sensitive to quakes. To read more about these experiences click here and here. Trish & Rob MacGregor have written about others who are sensitive to earthquakes on their SYNCHRONICITY blog: click here and here.<br />
Damage assessment is still in progress, and reports from the epicenter in Mexicali are just starting to come in.<br />
I didn't see Reindeer Woman (which may signify an axis shift)-- unless you count the book Creations Heartbeat: Following the Reindeer Spirit, by Linda Schierse Leonard. It was in may mailbox late yesterday afternoon...d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-10394684861393788622010-04-02T09:55:00.000-07:002013-01-17T18:22:02.870-08:00Orchid Thriving, Debra NOT<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/S7Yhz6l1EQI/AAAAAAAAAKQ/LYX2QUlr5to/s1600/DSC01156.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5455585174390903042" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/S7Yhz6l1EQI/AAAAAAAAAKQ/LYX2QUlr5to/s320/DSC01156.JPG" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; float: left; height: 214px; margin: 0 10px 10px 0; width: 320px;" /></a><br />
This orchid has been in my kitchen for 1 & 1/2 years. It started blooming recently.<br />
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Another visit to my doctor.... Nothing has improved since the last visit. In fact, things are worse in several ways:<br />
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1) Some of my muscles in my digestive tract are completely, permanently paralyzed, and there is no treatment. Combine the digestive problems with chronic functional hypoglycemia (low blood sugar) , and I am in a constant struggle to keep the body fueled. I am losing the battle with this. <br />
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2)I have also had more frequent, longer lasting, migraines than ever before. Bad enough to wear sunglasses at night, if house lights are on. Certain smells are intolerable.If anyone comes near me with perfume, I am immediately overwhelmed with dizziness and weakness. My eyesight is also effected my the migraines. Forget about cognition! Probably, my I.Q. has dropped by about 40 points!<br />
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3) My upper body muscles (head, neck, shoulder, arms, chest and upper back) are all in a Charley-horse type freeze. I can barely hold my own head up. My DR said,"Usually when the muscles get this bad we use steroids. But with your condition they may be too harsh."<br />
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4) I am in a prolonged cycle of insomnia, waking up *suddenly* every 20-160 minutes. Exhaustion has set in.<br />
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All the above amounts to this: for the first time since acquiring this illness in 1979, I've had to submit to a program of pain management. I have avoided pain meds all this time. But I can no longer function. This makes me feel like I've lost some kind of fight.<br />
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My Dr, her intern, my husband, and I spent our time together trying to work out a treatment plan. We even discussed medical marijuana <br />
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I am feeling very heavy-hearted at this point.<br />
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Thanks to the recent health care reform passed by Congress, the Senate and signed into law by President Obama, I will be able to go deeper into testing my body without fear of losing my health insurance coverage. This fear had limited how my Dr and I approached diagnostics and testing for my illness. My health care facility still isn't set up to test for XMRV, and I cannot afford to pay for the test out of pocket.($600- $800) The lab took 7 vials of blood for all the tests my doctor ordered. Now we wait.d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-40293517182103830212010-03-24T17:41:00.000-07:002010-03-24T17:49:38.050-07:00Trying<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/S6qy6G9RvHI/AAAAAAAAAJg/XkNhppDDa-w/s1600/orchids.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 134px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/S6qy6G9RvHI/AAAAAAAAAJg/XkNhppDDa-w/s200/orchids.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5452367010255191154" /></a><br /><br /><br />I'm trying to get well enough to feel "normal sick" instead of wretched. Everything hurts. At least my orchid is thriving.d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-21459974134934134252010-03-15T13:25:00.001-07:002010-03-15T13:29:08.385-07:00Hummingbird Visit<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/S56X43RuIOI/AAAAAAAAAIY/xDAQY7UyT3k/s1600-h/hummer6b.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 155px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_okD5S0ZvAlU/S56X43RuIOI/AAAAAAAAAIY/xDAQY7UyT3k/s200/hummer6b.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5448959602331623650" /></a><br /><br />There is absolutely nothing to say about how miserable my body is. Day after day after day. *sigh*<br /><br />So instead, I took a photo of one of the winged people that lives in the tree outside my front door. He buzzes me when I step out. He's a chipper fellow!d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-43739756942738762412010-03-06T15:52:00.000-08:002013-01-17T18:23:24.853-08:00Compassion, Suffering, and Courage"Compassion literally means to feel with, to suffer with.Everyone is capable of compassion, and yet everyone tends to avoid it because it's uncomfortable. And the avoidance produces psychic numbing -- resistance to experiencing our pain for the world and other beings." ~Joanna Macy<br />
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The above quote was on <a href="http://surya.org/wp/">Lama Surya Das</a>'s Face book page. It's very relevant to me because I have noticed something painful in the course of being chronically ill. People turn away from my life because it causes <span style="font-style: italic;">them</span> to feel depressed. Seeing my illness causes them suffering. <br />
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When I was caring for my terminally ill infant daughter (1993-1995), it was a rude awakening for me to see that people would rather not know her, because they considered it too painful to watch her life. Caring for my daughter Laryssa, loving her, meant accepting her exactly as she was without wishing her to be something else. Even some of the doctors in her life had problems with her condition, because they viewed her as a "non-viable life form" (their term). Anything but a human being. Everyday folk would say things like "Tsk tsk, what a waste." Seeing this, I vowed to consciously stay with suffering in others when the opportunity arose. <br />
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I once asked my precious lama, <a href="http://www.thetibetpost.com/en/news/exile/421-former-tibetan-mp-venerable-gyatso-nubpa-dies-aged-58">Lama Gyatso</a> "Why do they call this process <span style="font-style: italic;">enlightenment</span>? It should be called <span style="font-style: italic;">endarkenment</span>, because you can see everyone is suffering. You can't even walk on grass without killing a bug." <br />
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"Stay with this", he replied.<br />
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Even my beautiful compassionate Lama has died. He acquired hepatitis as a child in a refugee camp in India after escaping from Tibet. (He was a young boy and he witnessed most of his family being slaughtered.) I know he didn't turn away from witnessing suffering. I know he lived what he taught.<br />
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<span style="font-style: italic;">I pray I am brave enough to live what he taught.</span>d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070421243283482504.post-54419104312794144912010-02-08T09:32:00.000-08:002010-02-08T10:05:43.480-08:00Fun With InfectionsLast week I blogged about my doctor's visit. While I was there she noticed a slight infection in my left ear. I didn't mention this in the post below, because it seemed insignificant at the time.<br /> Yesterday I spent 2& 1/4 hours at Urgent Care. The antibiotics I had taken for one week didn't work. The infection has spread down the ear canal to my throat. It's hard for me to tell when I have bad an internal infection because I don't get fevers. My normal body temp is 96.7. Even when I've had pneumonia I don't get a fever. When I had H1N1 last spring, I didn't get a fever. Now I have antibiotic ear drops plus a stronger oral antibiotic. I had a horrible night with fever like sweats, chills and ear pounding. And nightmares! Antibiotics give me horrible nightmares! My dream life is crucial to me. It has always guided me. When my daughters were young, my dreams always warned me if they were sick, or having problems. My dreams tell me before a friend or family member dies. They also tell me when there is a pleasant surprise just around the corner. I don't like having my dreams messed with, especially by drugs.<br /> On a positive note, I did have a good time on Friday evening. Read about it on my other blog <a href="http://mythicmusing.blogspot.com/2010/02/pacific-paranormal-investigations.html">mythicmusing</a>.d pagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01995942283966564206noreply@blogger.com0